Jan 12, 2022
Welcome into the first episode of 2022 ya’ll! Another year of some amazing empowered and inspirational women, my first guest of the year is Paulette Stout. Paulette is the author of Love, Only Better, a contemporary romance and bedroom rallying cry for women everywhere. It is a book meant to celebrate women’s empowerment over their own bodies and pleasure as well as women discovering their own agency and fighting to keep it.
If you look at the cover of her book it is a picture of a grapefruit cut in half and...this was banned by Amazon for being too sexually suggestive ladies!!
“I guess women taking control over their own lives is too taboo for our society.”
We talk about how in our generation (years back! :) ) that our parents didn't know how to talk to us about the birds and the bees so we grew up trying to figure it all out. Raised by a single dad in Manhattan, Paulette was completely unaware of how to orgasm. Sex education was not something her father felt comfortable discussing, and by twenty-eight Paulette felt completely inadequate and traumatized by relationships that ended due to her inability to finish in the bedroom.
We need to know what we like in order to let our partner know. Intimacy is a bonding experience and Paulette said the more we talk about it, we can bridge the "orgasm gap". Speak up in the bedroom and feel comfortable to express your intimate feelings ladies! Own it.
Research in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that while 75% of heterosexual men always orgasm during sex, only 33% of heterosexual women do. That’s staggering—but so too is the 42% “orgasm gap” that divides men and women. Which is why it is imperative to open up a meaningful and frank conversation about the pressures and insecurities women experience when it comes to the big O and to stop censoring any possible way that women express themselves
One last thing from Paulette that I LOVED so much was this..
Feel confident embracing your pleasure lives, you might be missing out on something truly special. It is OK to want more in the Bedroom
You can find the first Chapter of this book at www.PauletteStout.com
MUST Read! I loved it! You can find Paulette at
https://www.paulettestout.com/
Twitter: @stoutcontent